I created WholeDads for one reason: to help dads . My job is to guide dads and help them realize what might be getting in the way of them being the best dad and man they can be. Through exploration of our different “masks” or “parts” we gain the clarity to be a Self-Led Dad. Self-leadership is about dads who no longer feel controlled by their reactions, but instead show up with presence, responsibility, and intention in their families.As fathers become more self-led, families become more grounded, relationships grow stronger, and a different standard of fatherhood takes hold.

Throughout my career as a licenced therapist(LCPC), I have worked with teenagers, families, and adults. Since become a dad myself in 2016 I have had the pleasure to work with many dads individually and in group settings. Throughout my extensive experience, I deleveloped the necesary skills to help dads through the ups and downs, the light and dark and everything in between. My therapy and coaching philsophy centers around my training in Interal Family Systems(IFS). Through deep inner work and intential action we can truly become a Self-Led Dad.

WholeDads is owned and operated by Ben Hilleboe, LCPC in Bozeman, Montana. Ben is is the proud father of three and loves to share outdoor adventure with his family